You've read many books in drama. Or there's just that one that sticks out most. Any book relates to your life in particular? Tell us which book and why it's similar to what's going on in your life! Click on "comments" now!
Posted by Kevin on June 9, 2006 03:27 PM|Permalink
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I don't have a book in particular yet that matches what I'm going through with...anyone has a suggestion? Here's what's up:
I fell for a young lady, about 6 years younger than me. But I'm going out with a lady more closer to my age (let's call her Jane). Jane is awesome, treats me right - she's wifey material.
But the young lady - let's call her Sue - isn't as anal and strict like Jane. I can talk to Sue and not worry about her being jealous or suspicious of any other female friends I have. Bottomline: I haven't done anything but talk and connect with Sue. And I'm just trying to make it work with Jane.
Is there a book that anyone knows about that I can read up on? I want to connect to a book that talks to me, I want to see what happens when certain choices are made. I appreciate it y'all!
I'm not particular certain about what book ideally matches your circumstance. But while reading your dilemma, instanteously I was drawn to ask you if you have tried speaking to GOD about this circumstance? Honestly and realistically, I believe that there is no better solution than the one I've just offered. God bless you, wishing you the best!
Surely, God is good, and I know what I've been feeling is wrong. Since I posted that comment I've talked less to "Sue" - not by choice. I don't doubt what I've done is wrong, even if not physical ever took place. But you're right, it's all on me to chill out.
I will be more of a man to Jane, she deserves it. Thanks.
Your delimma may be all settled by the time this is posted. However, "isn't it nice just to have someone you really enjoy talking with and sjaring your concerns with? What's wifey material? Doesn't that mean "your better half, or does that mean your housekeeper?
john, i've read a lot of books but i can't really come up with one that matches your situation, however i think you should be with the person that makes you feel most comfortable and not make you feel like you can't talk about certain things because when you're old and gray the conversations are what's most important...
look here john, keep it real. you sit back, think about it for a while, and then you decide who makes you happy. nevermind who you can talk to, or who you can grow old with. bump all of that. just because you can have a conversation with someone does not make them your soulmate. if this Sue person does it for you stick with her. if Jane does it for you stick with her. you do what is right for John. not Sue or Jane. you have to live and die for yourself.
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I don't have a book in particular yet that matches what I'm going through with...anyone has a suggestion? Here's what's up:
I fell for a young lady, about 6 years younger than me. But I'm going out with a lady more closer to my age (let's call her Jane). Jane is awesome, treats me right - she's wifey material.
But the young lady - let's call her Sue - isn't as anal and strict like Jane. I can talk to Sue and not worry about her being jealous or suspicious of any other female friends I have. Bottomline: I haven't done anything but talk and connect with Sue. And I'm just trying to make it work with Jane.
Is there a book that anyone knows about that I can read up on? I want to connect to a book that talks to me, I want to see what happens when certain choices are made. I appreciate it y'all!
Posted by: John | June 9, 2006 03:39 PM
I'm not particular certain about what book ideally matches your circumstance. But while reading your dilemma, instanteously I was drawn to ask you if you have tried speaking to GOD about this circumstance? Honestly and realistically, I believe that there is no better solution than the one I've just offered. God bless you, wishing you the best!
Posted by: Nathesia | June 14, 2006 02:28 AM
Surely, God is good, and I know what I've been feeling is wrong. Since I posted that comment I've talked less to "Sue" - not by choice. I don't doubt what I've done is wrong, even if not physical ever took place. But you're right, it's all on me to chill out.
I will be more of a man to Jane, she deserves it. Thanks.
Posted by: John | June 14, 2006 07:31 AM
Your delimma may be all settled by the time this is posted. However, "isn't it nice just to have someone you really enjoy talking with and sjaring your concerns with? What's wifey material? Doesn't that mean "your better half, or does that mean your housekeeper?
Sue
Posted by: Sue | June 20, 2006 02:07 PM
john, i've read a lot of books but i can't really come up with one that matches your situation, however i think you should be with the person that makes you feel most comfortable and not make you feel like you can't talk about certain things because when you're old and gray the conversations are what's most important...
Posted by: temeka | June 30, 2006 07:18 PM
look here john, keep it real. you sit back, think about it for a while, and then you decide who makes you happy. nevermind who you can talk to, or who you can grow old with. bump all of that. just because you can have a conversation with someone does not make them your soulmate. if this Sue person does it for you stick with her. if Jane does it for you stick with her. you do what is right for John. not Sue or Jane. you have to live and die for yourself.
Posted by: Amelia | August 24, 2006 12:33 PM